Lately it has occurred to me that not all of my sins were forgiven at Calvary. I feel as if You may have left a couple of mine out when You were on the cross. I’m thinking about many but here’s one: I don’t feel as if I have been totally forgiven for abandoning my children all those years when I was drinking and drugging. I neglected my responsibilities as their father and now my middle one is having his own battle with drugs and alcohol and thoughts of suicide. I feel as if I need to do something, to work harder, to prove that I really am sorry for what I did. There has to be a way for me to feel as if I didn’t fail.
So, can You do me a favor and come back and repeat that day? I know it was the worst day of Your life on earth but can You leave Heaven again and make sure that my sin was forgiven? I just don’t feel as if it was. Can You go to the Cross one more time? Thanks.
No, I won’t be doing that day again, not because I don’t love you or that I don’t care that you are suffering this emotional anguish but because My crucifixion really did conquer ALL sin and death forever, past, present, and future. My sitting on the throne at the right hand of My Father is proof that when I said, “It is finished,” it is.
It is true that there is nothing you can do. I did it all, I paid the price, My death reconciled you to My Father. When you asked Me into your life to become your Lord and Savior, all that you have done, are doing, and will do has been atoned for. You received a new past, a beautiful present, and a glorious future. Though you may not feel it, remember that feelings are not facts. It was only through the love of My Father that you are truly forgiven. One and done. You need to accept your acceptance, and your acceptance is based on what I did at the Cross. You could never do anything that would duplicate what happened that day. So you may regret the path you took to get to Me, and I know that if you could change what you did, especially abandoning your children, you would. My death, burial, and resurrection have taken care of ALL your sins.
Check out John 3:3, John 3:16-17, John 5:24, and II Cor. 5:17. These verses will help you in the areas of your salvation, assurance, and security. II Cor. 5:21 will help you to know that through My death, burial, and resurrection, you are accepted 100%.
I love you,
Many of us who come from a background of drugs and alcohol abuse, poor choices, and selfish decisions don’t feel forgiven. God is not interested in how we feel but rather that we accept and trust what Jesus did for us that day at Calvary. He paid the price in full because we never could. Our Father loved us so much that He gave us Jesus, who did the will of the Father. As the result of His obedience and His actions, we are set free from sin and death in spite of how we feel.
Trust, obey, and have faith that the past is what you did and not who you are. Because of, and only because of the Cross, we are forgiven.
Father, thank you for the opportunity, through the crucifixion of Your Son, my Savior Jesus, to become a member of Your family, and that it is not from human acceptance or people pleasing that I am free from the penalty of sin and death. Thank you, Jesus, for paying my sin debt in full that day on the Cross at Calvary. I love You and my life is Yours.
My name is Joe Freeman and as of April, 2010, I am a new creation, one of The King’s kids! Receiving Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior and making Him the center of my life has transformed this former alcoholic/drug addict into a disciple of the Way, the Truth, and the Life. I have decided to follow Jesus until I am called home to Heaven.
I grew up the eldest of nine boys in the Philadelphia area before moving to the shore town of Wildwood Crest, NJ. As a child I was physically and emotionally abused by my father. My mother lived in fear of my father and was controlled by his anger and dictatorial style. He was a punishing father, physically, emotionally, and verbally. He hit first and did so often. Degradation and public humiliation were the norm. He expected us to do as he said, not as he did. He drank a lot, smacked my mother around, and by all indications was unfaithful. An agnostic at best and an atheist at times. he acted as if he were smarter than God and was angry with God. My mother sent us to Catholic church on Sundays but she was too afraid of my father to go herself. I never saw my father show forgiveness to anyone. If you did it, you paid for it. A mistake was a screw-up, not tolerated and generally beaten out of you. He was brutal, not gentle.My opinion and image of God was that He did not love me or even like me. God was a brutal punisher who looked for me to fall and then swiftly and brutally punished me. He could never forgive me for even the smallest offense and I could never please Him or make Him love me.
I was also sexually abused by a female babysitter starting at age 11 for a year and a half. This led to further pain and turmoil in my soul and damaged my concept of intimacy.
I began to drink heavily in college and ultimately became addicted to drugs, alcohol, and women, which continued for 40 years, costing me my marriage, family, job, and health. I trusted no one and relied only on my three best friends; me, myself, and I. I ended up in a crack hotel, broken in body and soul, and ready to blow my brains out because I saw no hope.
A friend told me about the Colony of Mercy at America’s Keswick, where he had found deliverance form the bondage of addiction. I practically crawled across the street to the hotel office to make the call to the intake coordinator at the Colony and was able to go to Keswick in April, 2010. My life was radically transformed when I began to understand the truth of Galatians 2:20, that Christ IS my life. I had known of Jesus in earlier years but had never had a personal and intimate relationship with Him nor the knowledge of what He had done for me that day on the Cross. I went through the 4 month program, stayed for the Discipleship program, and then was offered an internship to work alongside the chaplains at the Colony of Mercy.
My wife and I were introduced to the ministry of Grace Fellowship International through the books of Dr. Charles Solomon. We attended the conference/workshop/school in November of 2011 and have felt God’s calling on our lives to share the message of the Exchanged Life and Jesus as the Bondage Breaker on a full-time basis. We desire to teach others that Christ came “so that they may have life and have it more abundantly” (John 10:10).